Monday, October 12, 2009

Is there room for one more Sun..

On a day as uncertain as this, the future hangs on nothing but hope and a fight for common cause. I know how she feels because i've been there before. Today; everything will condense into today. You will feel helpless at the immenseness of everything.

Life will feel like cold turkey, but it'll only be for one day. Sometimes maybe two. And on other days, the aftershocks will reverberate. But it'll die down sooner or later. And only with time, truth and courage will she know what to expect of all this.

We might think that we are all alone in certain experiences but talk it out, not to the random stranger, that'd be too dangerous, but a long time friend that you can trust. You'd soon find out that eventhough each experience is unique to only you, there are still similarities in the decision-making, the emotional process, and the overall outcome of the two.

NS for me is like a book full of untold stories. And I find that people open up to you more if you ask them questions close to the heart. So i ask one question, and their lifestory unfolds. I sit there, listening, and taking it all in. Its much more simpler than having to do introductions about myself. At the same time, i analyze and try to read into the person. Likes, dislikes, hobbies, who they are as a person and who'd they like to be in the future.

And when you don't distance/separate yourself from anything, you'll pretty much be able to talk to anyone. Provided they feel comfortable talking to you in the first place.

You'll learn a whole lot. And you'll learn that you, are not alone.